Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Our Romantic Fifth Anniversary

Jeff and I celebrated our fifth anniversary on Friday. Well, I use the term "celebrated" loosely. We did meet up at Rubio's on his lunch break for about 45 minutes. We also had dinner together for about 30 minutes before he went to perform in a production of "The Matchmaker" in Hollywood. He brought me flowers, I wrote him an epic card. Doesn't sound terribly romantic, does it? Well, let me tell you about romance. 

The day after our anniversary, Jeff helped me prepare for a party I was throwing that evening. He cleaned the house and took care of our toddler while I ran errands, then he assisted in arranging tables and thought through seating for me. I didn't ask him to do any of that, especially since it was for a bridal shower that he obviously wasn't going to attend. He just offered. That's romance.

The day after that, I came down with a mystery illness that left me shivering in bed, crying for no apparent reason other than miserable aches. He gave me medication, held me to warm me up, and didn't even call me a wuss when I cried. That's romance.

The day after that, I was still sick and he came home from work with the worst migraine ever. He laid on the couch, and I took off his shoes and put his feet up for him. Romance.

Once his Excedrin kicked in he felt better, but I was still sick so he prepared soup for my dinner. Romance.

In the midst of all this, our Internet stopped working, and like a freaking genius I pushed the reset button on our router. Apparently that put everything back to factory settings, which meant we had no clue what our password was because we changed it from the original back in October. I am ashamed to admit I'd done this once before many months ago, but somehow forgot about that ordeal and did it a second time. Instead of telling me I'm an idiot (which would have been accurate), Jeff just sat down and fixed it. It probably took a couple hours, but he was so calm about it. ROMANCE.

We're going to get away some time next month to celebrate in a happier, more traditionally romantic way, but I'm proud of the solid marriage that Jeff and I have even when life isn't all a shiny, fairytale romance. I'm grateful to be married to such a wonderful man, and I'm pleased to team up with him for better or worse.

Engagement picture by Chris Humphreys



Thursday, June 7, 2012

ANNIVERSARY HAPPINESS!

Hey Jeff,


So I was going to write a post full of pictures of ALL the things we did together last year, but I honestly didn't know where to start. It's just been too much. I think we are crazy people if I reflect too hard. But, like, the good kind of crazy people. Cray cray. Holler. You know. 


Anyway, here are a few highlights:


1. We had a baby. Well, I had the baby, but you were there the whole time even though you hadn't slept. You're the most amazing dad, but still an amazing husband at the same time.




2. We survived your thesis. We survived you writing it, we survived you rehearsing it, and more importantly, my attraction to you survived even after seeing your performance.
Photo by David Polston




3. We graduated from Regent. Well, you did the graduating, but I was there the whole time you were in school. I'm taking 7% of the credit. I'm so proud of your accomplishment and proud that we worked hard to stay connected even when you were the busiest person out of all the people.
Photo by big brother
4. We endured Virginia 2011: Dismal Swamp Fire, Earthquake, and Hurricane Irene all in two weeks. And we had fun through it all, imagine that.


5. We persevered through our second cross country move, this time with an infant and a dog. This should be super stressful, but it was only stressful for that one hour at the airport. You know what I'm talking about. [Shakes fist at United/Delta/Continental Cargo dudes.]
Back at Disneyland, where we belong.


These are just highlights - we've had so much fun, grown so much, and changed together. And you're still my very favorite. I love you so! Happy Fourth Anniversary!

Monday, June 4, 2012

Movie Review Monday #50: The Avengers

After an 11 month unintentional theater-fast, Manny and I got in front of the big screen today to see The Avengers to celebrate our 7th wedding anniversary. Huge thanks to our friends, Laura, Mike, and Charlie for keeping Sofia entertained with some rainy day couch-tunnels and train sets so we could enjoy lots of crescendos on a big screen that would have otherwise been severely downplayed and practically ruined on our home TV, trying to keep Sofia asleep, several months from now. Netflix, you're great, but you can only do so much for us.

image borrowed from here

The Prerequisites:
A small glimpse of the upcoming Avengers long ago was enough to convince me to see both Captain America and Thor when I wouldn't have otherwise. Sadly, after seeing those movies, I lost a bit of steam and interest in seeing The Avengers. But having seen them all, I will say Thor provided a surprisingly foundational backdrop to The Avengers, so even though the movie experience was a bit disappointing, and in fact sleep inducing, I was glad to have the background. Captain America was a fine movie, but they give you sufficient hints about his back story within The Avengers that one would be fine without having seen it. Ironman is just great, so essential or not, I'd recommend it, but you've probably already seen it. 

The Experience:
When you get to a place in life where you get to see one, maybe two, movies in a theater (due to your budget, your schedule, your littles), you develop a pretty strict rubric about which movies make the cut. For me, that rubric includes: 

1) I have to feel pretty certain I'll enjoy the film 
2) Its strengths should include elements I can not enjoy at home. 

So for me, this mostly boils down to explosive action films that have promising character development. [as of today, the new Batman film has joined the list of must-see's, I'd welcome any baby-sitting volunteers now! :) ] Granted, I only just got home from watching it, and I'm inappropriately hopped up an indecent quantity of pop-corn, soda, and candy that are usually exempt from my diet, but I would say The Avengers fit the bill on this score. The booming crescendos that had me jumping and nearly shouting at someone to turn the volume down so as not to wake my child that I kept forgetting was miles away. On top of the great action and sound, the pleasant surprise was how much it made me laugh, which was perhaps what I needed most out of a movie going experience today. Robert Downey Jr. just cracks me up. He's come a long way since I developed a crush on him in Only You. [don't tell Manny ;) ]

I will say plenty of the dialogue was thoroughly predictable. But I felt like I could anticipate what characters would say because they were developed so clearly. And when they did execute expected lines, it wasn't dissatisfying, it was just a moment well completed. 

The Characters
I loved Gwyneth Paltrow's character here even more than I've been loving her in Ironman. Her appearance is unfortunately brief, but she seems appropriately aged and yet still strong, impressive, and elegant, all within a committed relationship. Such a respectable female portrayal felt like a rare treat. 

I read elsewhere that one of the strengths of this film was that the writers/directors did a good job of bringing several characters together for one flick while still developing their unique personalities sufficiently well so as not to lose the strong story. I would agree and add that I think this was accomplished by hitting on the Achilles' heel of each hero, not shortchanging the complexity of each character, but instead using their weaknesses to propel the story towards tapping into truth and giving them all (and thereby us) opportunity for transformation through the experience.

Perhaps one of the best portrayed weaknesses of the heroes was how suited they were to having their own spotlight, and therefore how difficult it was to "play well with others." They played this off through several character conflicts, but my favorite might have been between Ironman and Captain America. Captain America was trapped in ice for seventy years, so while he's decades the senior to Ironman, he looks much younger. I appreciated the wise elder role they allowed the Captain to play in the team, how they played off of Ironman's playboy contrast, and how they two ended up complimenting each other in the end: Ironman learning about sacrifice and following the Captain's leadership. We can certainly use more encouragement towards humility and respecting our elders. 

The Follow Up:
I would definitely watch another Avengers movie. But equally intriguing to me are the prospects of a movie with Black Widow and Hawk Eye so I can have a better sense of their back story. Interest piqued, Marvel, well done. 

To The Avengers, two claws up! 

To my husband, Happy 7th Anniversary. You're my hero. ;)

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

[Best of Year One] Three Years Ago Today

[Originally posted: Tuesday, June 7, 2011]

Three years ago today, I woke up on my sister’s plush green couch and watched Dan in Real Life while enjoying donut holes and orange juice. I went to Happy Nails with some of my favorite friends and had a manicure and pedicure. I ate at Rubio’s for lunch – chicken taquitos, chips, a churro, a big Diet Coke. Delicious.


Three years ago today, I relaxed for a few hours in the nursery of my childhood church. I had my hair done and actually liked how it turned out, and I put on the biggest, whitest dress of my life. Various vital women came and went, providing joy and comfort with their brief visits.


Three years ago today, I stood in the back of the church feeling a little bit nervous, clutching Daddy’s arm. Friends gathered around me and prayed for my future. My boss snuck in late and whispered “hello” and I whispered “you’re fired” and we chuckled and I felt less nervous. My best guy friend told me “this is your moment” and smiled at me before opening the doors to the church.
Photo: Christine Lee Smith
www.clsphotography.com
Three years ago today, I walked down the aisle with a smile pasted to my face while the man I love smiled back and cried. A lot. We remembered Jesus and His example of perfect love with an animal cracker and juice communion. We promised forever, and we meant it, and we immediately told the world about our promise on Facebook.


Three years ago today, we threw the best party I’ve ever attended. We had In-n-Out, a photo booth, a jazz band, colorful homemade desserts, and dancing, dancing, dancing. We dressed up a homely courtyard, filling it with strings of light and people we love. And it was all perfect because I was with my husband, who I love even more today than I did three years ago.
Photo: Christine Lee Smith
www.clsphotography.com
Happy anniversary, Jeffrey Michael!

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Three Years Ago Today

Three years ago today, I woke up on my sister’s plush green couch and watched Dan in Real Life while enjoying donut holes and orange juice. I went to Happy Nails with some of my favorite friends and had a manicure and pedicure. I ate at Rubio’s for lunch – chicken taquitos, chips, a churro, a big Diet Coke. Delicious.


Three years ago today, I relaxed for a few hours in the nursery of my childhood church. I had my hair done and actually liked how it turned out, and I put on the biggest, whitest dress of my life. Various vital women came and went, providing joy and comfort with their brief visits.


Three years ago today, I stood in the back of the church feeling a little bit nervous, clutching Daddy’s arm. Friends gathered around me and prayed for my future. My boss snuck in late and whispered “hello” and I whispered “you’re fired” and we chuckled and I felt less nervous. My best guy friend told me “this is your moment” and smiled at me before opening the doors to the church.
Photo: Christine Lee Smith
www.clsphotography.com
Three years ago today, I walked down the aisle with a smile pasted to my face while the man I love smiled back and cried. A lot. We remembered Jesus and His example of perfect love with an animal cracker and juice communion. We promised forever, and we meant it, and we immediately told the world about our promise on Facebook.


Three years ago today, we threw the best party I’ve ever attended. We had In-n-Out, a photo booth, a jazz band, colorful homemade desserts, and dancing, dancing, dancing. We dressed up a homely courtyard, filling it with strings of light and people we love. And it was all perfect because I was with my husband, who I love even more today than I did three years ago.
Photo: Christine Lee Smith
www.clsphotography.com
Happy anniversary, Jeffrey Michael!

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Snapshot Saturday #3: the shot that started it all


Sophomore year of college. First photography class. Assignment: portraits. I asked my buddy, Nate, if I could use him as a subject. Not only did I get an enthusiastic "sure," but also, he brought along a whole group of friends. I told them to gather up some props and come to the Armington lawn. One by one they sat awkwardly for me while I danced around the polite sphere of personal space. Jon used someone's guitar as a prop, but held it backwards - not knowing any better, making for some comical shots. Then you sat down.

You grabbed the same guitar. Not only did you know how to hold it, you knew how to play. You began to mess around with some little jazzy improv-y chord progressions. I lost site of the sphere of personal space all together. You drew me in and I was entranced. I don't think I even realized what I was doing. I've always wondered what you were thinking as my lens got right up in your face.

Later that evening, I spent a few hours alone in the dark room. That's when it really hit me. As the shot of you developed and I saw that image coming into view in that red light, a powerful, visceral rush of excitement/butterflies/awe/joy rushed over me. Bam! It was like I got hit by a truck that was my-intense-crush-on-you. Full on twitter-pated.

You looked so mysterious. I wanted to discover what that mystery was all about. I needed any excuse to see you again as soon as possible. I rushed down the hill to your dorm, only to find your room darkened with multiple girls snuggled up on your couch. But you weren't on that couch. You were on the bunk above them, from which you jumped down faster than I could finish knocking on your door. I was almost too overwhelmed and nervous to know what to say. "Uh, I finished developing the photos. It took a few tries to get it quite right for the assignment. I thought your mom might want some pictures of you or something." And she knew right away. On your next visit home, when you handed her those prints, she knew better than even I did how completely smitten I was with you. She could see it in the shot. Smart lady.

Here we are. Six years ago today, we got married.

I still love this shot.

I love that I got to capture and preserve the exact moment that my heart fell in love with you.

I love that I'm still enthralled with discovering your mystery.

I love that the power with which those feelings hit me as your image developed was just the smallest glimpse of the way I feel about you today, as if our love is ever-developing and coming more fully into view.

I love you, Manny.

Happy Anniversary my dear husband.